BONUS: The Night Nobody Came Knocking – A Father’s Day Story

This is a special bonus episode in honor of Father’s Day 2025.

On an ordinary evening in 1960s Cleveland, an unexpected knock at the door changed the way I saw my father forever.

This short, true story is a tribute to Robert Joseph Zett (aka, Dad), a working-class man who never thought of himself as brave—but showed me what quiet courage really looks like.

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The Night Nobody Came Knocking – A Father’s Day Story

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Chapters

• 0:00 Episode Introduction
• 0:37 The Night Nobody Came Knocking
• 1:34 The Unexpected Visitors
• 3:05 Dad's Quiet Courage
• 5:17 Father's Day Dedication

Transcript

Natalie Zett: 0:00

Hey, this is Natalie. This isn't a regular episode of Flower in the River. Think of it as an in-between, a pause to remember someone who shaped my life in ways that I am still discovering. With Father's Day here, 2025, I wanted to share with you a short piece that I wrote and recorded about my dad. It's a quiet story, but it changed how I see courage. No history lesson this time, just a memory and a thank you. The Night Nobody Came Knocking. By Natalie Zett. This is a tribute to my dad's quiet courage.

Natalie Zett: 0:51

It was an ordinary evening in our working-class Cleveland neighborhood. Dad and I were in the living room together him in his chair, me probably sprawled out on the floor or couch chair, me probably sprawled out on the floor or couch. The television might have been on, or maybe we were just talking. The specifics of what we were doing blur with time, but what happened next remains crystal clear. Three sharp knocks on our front door broke the evening calm. On our front door broke the evening calm. I was curious, as children always are, about unexpected visitors. I peered through the window to see who was there. In the dim porch light stood several men from our neighborhood. They weren't dressed for a social call. Each one held a baseball bat gripped tightly in their hands. I remember thinking how weird that was. My dad didn't play baseball and it was dark outside certainly not the time for a game. Dad went to the door while I watched. I couldn't hear exactly what they said, their voices low and urgent. The conversation was brief. Dad didn't invite them in, and that was weird. Maybe I was mistaken, maybe those weren't our neighbors after all. Within minutes he was shutting the door Well, not gently closing it, but slamming it, with a finality that echoed through our house. When he turned back to the living room, his face was set Jaw tight. Who was that? I asked, my curiosity peaked by the strange visit and my father's reaction. What did they want? His answer was simple, definitive. His answer was simple, definitive nobody. The subject was closed as far as he was concerned. We went back to our evening, though something had shifted in the atmosphere of our home. It wasn't until much later that I learned what really happened.

Natalie Zett: 3:02

That night, my mother told me those neighborhood men had come recruiting. Night, my mother told me those neighborhood men had come recruiting. A black family was planning to move into our neighborhood. And these men, our neighbors, the guys we saw at the grocery store and at the post office, had decided to welcome them by trashing the house before they could move in. They wanted my dad to join them. He had refused. There was no dramatic speech, no lecture on morality. My father simply wouldn't participate In his mind. Those men with their bats and their hate weren't welcome in our home. They weren't people he would associate with or lend his strength to. They were nobody.

Natalie Zett: 3:46

My dad never portrayed himself as heroic for this choice or anything else he did. He didn't boast about standing against racism or neighborhood pressure. It was simply the only decision he could make and still be the man he was. As far as he was concerned, hate and fear would not cross our threshold. The line was drawn at our front door and he held it. I carried this memory all my life.

Natalie Zett: 4:21

In that moment, my father taught me something profound. Without intending to, without a single word of explanation, he showed me that sometimes courage is quiet. Sometimes integrity is just saying no, when saying yes would be easier. Sometimes you define yourself most clearly by what you refuse to do. Those men with their baseball bats were nobody, not because they weren't real, but because my father refused to give their hatred, legitimacy or power in our home. By slamming that door, he was protecting more than just our physical space. He was guarding the values that made our house a home.

Natalie Zett: 5:17

The night nobody came knocking was the night I learned that standing firm against hatred doesn't always require grand gestures, grand standing or virtue signaling. Sometimes it's just as simple and as difficult as closing your door and turning away For him. Saying no to those guys with baseball bats wasn't brave or special. Baseball bats wasn't brave or special. It was just what you did when hatred came to your door. No need to tell the world about it or get a pat on the back. He didn't do the right thing to be seen doing it. He did it because it was right. Period Today, father's Day 2025,. Period Today, father's Day 2025,. Dad's way of standing his ground stays with me. He showed me that who you really are is defined by what you do when nobody's looking. I dedicate this piece in memory of Robert Joseph Zett, 1922 to 1996. Happy Father's Day, dad.